Part of this spiritual tradition is for students to live as a household, a spiritual “family”. Your interactions with other students allow you to see yourself - whatever annoys you about them is generally a reflection of some quality you reject in yourself. We learn to treat others considerately because it’s not them it’s us.
Now that we’ve been quarantining for a while this exercise is available to many. Who are your quarantine mates and what’s wrong with them? Boom! Now you know how to improve yourself.